Monday, November 3, 2008
Dating your close friends.
I have never dated any of my close friends because I was always afraid that if I did, it not workout and we would never be friends again or have a good relationship. I seen many of my friends in high school date their close friends and it was a disaster. My senior year in high school people started thinking that my best friend Jonathan and I liked each other, and so everyone started pressuring us to get together. I did not like him that way so we never got together. I knew that things would not work out between us and so I avoided that situation and we are still best friends today. I always told myself that "I rather have this great friendship than ruin it when I knew I did not feel that way about him."
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I dated a guy that was in my circle of friends before. We liked each other, but they whole time we dated i just felt like we were best friends. Now were still alwayssss around each other, and sometimes boyfriend/girlfriends of ours have problems with that. Its hard to explain that we really are just friends, and their are no feelings anymore.
yea, so moral of my story, dont date someone in your group of friends just because you get along well. It kinda just caused problems for me now!
I dont think it really matters. Ive dated girls who i was just friends with and it turned into something more, but then we realized were better off as friends. Nothing was awkward about the situation either if you are both grown up about the situation you realize feelings are a part of nature. If u get mad if they talk to other people then maybe you really do like each other and you dont want to allow yourself to like them. I think its best to get the feelings out of your system to know where you stand and so you dont regret it later.
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